Saturday, 29 June 2013

Candice 12 Weeks Out - Her Personal Take On Cheat Meals

What I love about life is the different perspectives. Cheat Meals are a phenomenon particular to weight loss and are often discussed at length in any sort of nutrition plan that involves denial of certain foods or amounts of certain foods. Hence the reason there is a perceived 'need' for a 'Cheat Meal' to satisfy that denial. I have my own thoughts on this matter and Candice's aren't necessarily mine. But I love to hear and digest others' views and, in the end, make an informed decision for myself.

So here you have it - Candice's take on Cheat Meals. Read, take it as her opinion, and use what you need. If you read something that you don't agree with, that's fine. I believe all things true should stand up to questioning so it may further confirm your own opinion, or perhaps raise some doubt on your original stance. Both are positives in my book.

Enjoy....


Candice Lamb....
Last weekend in Katherine we had two lovely ladies come down and give us a great presentation on bodybuilding. So many topics were covered, and one in particular really got my attention. Now before I start ranting on about this keep in mind that in the health and fitness and particularly body building industries, everyone does things very differently. Also keep in mind that I am no expert, but I do quite a bit of research and have been taught by some great athletes so if there is anything you don’t agree with or think is wrong, let me know. Anyway, the topic of cheat meals was mentioned and I saw a few eyes light up around the room and a few months ago, mine would have popped out of my head at the sheer mention of ‘cheating’ on my nutrition program.
For my last comp prep I was allowed to cheat once a week until TWO WEEKS pre comp, and I did! Right up until Kirsten found out and had a stern word with me about having to get on stage in next to nothing six weeks later…that stopped me cold in my tracks. I didn’t go crazy with my cheats, but I definitely cheated once a week – usually with peanut m&ms and medjool dates. This time around under a new coach, no cheat meals. None. Nothing. Nada. So now that I am experiencing both sides of this argument I thought I would do a bit of research and help you all minimise some time on Facebook reading about it!
So what is a cheat meal? Well, the name says it all – a meal that ALLOWS you to ‘cheat’ on whatever nutrition plan you are following whether this be a structured plan for a competition or just general clean eating. The point of a cheat meal? This might be a little longwinded, so take a seat. Our bodies are created for survival and this means holding on to a particular amount of fat to ensure that we are warm, our organs are protected and for females, even more fat needs to be on board to make sure we are ready to make babies. When we are on low calorie diets or restricted food groups our metabolism starts to slow down over a period of time in order to keep as much fat on us as possible.

Crap, hey? The idea of a cheat meal is then to give the system a big kick up the bum – we introduce a heap of food we don’t normally eat and our metabolism momentarily freaks out and speeds up a bit to try and work it all off. Then we go back to our normal eating plan for the rest of the week and our metabolism returns to where it started. Sounds pretty good right? I found a lot of positive information on cheat meals and really, most of them make sense. Cheats help some people stay on track – knowing that you can give in to that chocolate craving on Saturday night might help you walk away from the confectionary aisle at Woollies earlier in the week. The absolute best thing about cheat meals in my book however is the small part of a social life that you can keep, especially when prepping for comp. Cheat meals allow you to go out for dinner, lunch, breakfast – whatever, once a week with your loved ones if you choose to do so. It takes away the isolation factor, particularly during a comp prep, which is something that I really struggle with. F

For those last few weeks that I wasn’t allowed to have cheat meals I became a hermit. The only place I would see people was at Uni, the gym or Woolworths…apart from that it was just me. And my cats. Just kidding, I don’t have cats, but I seriously turned into a crazy cat lady and for some people that could be the deal breaker to ever wanting to compete or opt for a healthier lifestyle.

When I was doing my research I was a little surprised that almost EVERYTHING supported cheat meals. There was hardly a bad thing mentioned about them however I think there are definite down sides to this fantastic little invention. For me, the hardest thing about cheating was knowing that I had to go back to normal at the next meal…once I had a taste of those peanut m&ms, I never wanted to be without them again! I know that other people also struggle with feelings of guilt after they have cheated – even when it is a scheduled cheat meal. Knowing that you need to be on stage in a few months and throwing chocolate and cake down your throat really doesn’t settle any ‘I won’t be ready in time’ feelings.

So my overall thoughts on cheat meals? Still undecided. I still don’t even know if they work for me. But what I have noticed this time around is that now, this is so much more than trying to get on stage in the best shape. For me this is now about being the healthiest I can be and eating junk once a week won’t make me healthy, nor will it help me lift heavy stuff at the gym. I can see some of you rolling your eyes and thinking that one meal a week isn’t going to affect me that much, and you’re right, it probably won’t, but when it comes to food, I have no off button. It’s honestly easier for me to not allow myself to cheat. As much as I really want to eat junk at times, especially now that I am back in Katherine and actually wanting to socialise, I know that unhealthy foods won’t get me to where I want to be. I also feel that it wouldn’t be beneficial on the program that I am on. I am eating SO MUCH food. Six meals a day, and am getting heaps of calories from all food groups and I don’t feel that a ‘cheat’ would speed up my metabolism at all – it’ already firing so fast trying to work through all the food I am getting fed! So what should you do? Unfortunately, I can’t tell you what to do – I don’t even know what I’m doing myself most of the time! I did find some great information written by Charles Poliquin with some tips that Kirsten taught me which might help some of you …

1.      Eat your protein first – this will fill you up and give your muscles some nutrients

2.      Always eat your cheat meal at a table – either at home or a restaurant (I used to curl up in bed with my m&ms and a book – craaaazy lady!)

3.      Once your butt leaves the seat your cheat meal is over

4.      Plan what you are going to eat before hand and don’t change your mind. Stuff goes wrong when we aren’t prepared.

5.      Even though it’s your ‘cheat’ meal strive to make the healthier choice – have potato instead of chips, brown bread instead of white etc etc

6.      Save your cheat meal for an event – go out on a date, have dinner at your mums…don’t sit around and stuff your face on your own. You won’t eat as much when others are watching you!

For those of you prepping for comp this year or next here is a little quote from Scott Goble, Australian Body Building Champion that snaps me out of my cravings (sometimes) ‘I doubt anyone has ever completed a contest prep without wanting to cheat. The best thing is, every time you think about it, one of your competitors does it, and you move up another placing.’ Do yourselves a favour and follow him on Facebook!
So what’s next on the cards for me? Well, I’m finally a member of the body conquest team and very excited about it. I’m 12 and a little bit weeks out from my next competition and the rollercoaster has well and truly started again. I took about three weeks off from any structured nutrition plan and training after my last comp and I was a miserable little troll. I felt so lost and empty without a goal in
the near future so I decided to go again this year!

If all goes to plan (which it will, I’m a little terrified of letting Ingrid and the team down!) I’ll be competing in the fitness model division at the INBA Tropix in Townsville in September. It’s the same weekend at the INBA NT so unfortunately I can’t do both but I really wanted to experience a big competition and as the INBA season B (there are two seasons of bodybuilding shows every year) opener I know it will be huge! I feel a lot more prepared this time – I know where I fell down before and I’m trying to learn from that and better myself this time. Hopefully I’ll write a bit more during this comp prep if Kirsten doesn’t mind me hijacking her blog – it keeps me sane and on track and I know there are a few out there that read this blog. If there are any questions about anything – let me and Kirst know and we will get writing. 12 weeks to go, let’s do this! Xx

 


Friday, 7 June 2013

Post Comp - Did Someone Say Food's Up?....



It’s that time again – time to report back on life Post-Comp!! I have put off writing this blog…but not for the reasons you may be thinking! Study!! I’ve simply been too busy to stop and write!! But I’m happy!! I’m so bloody happy I’m dangerous!!! I’m not sure where to start so I’ll recap what I’ve done and where I’m at;

1 January 2012 – decision made to compete.
Jan-Sept 2012
Train and eat under direction of Coach #1. 12 weeks pre-comp and I’m starting to cut food dramatically and increase cardio. Last 2 weeks  = 2 x hours of cardio daily, 1 x hour weights daily, 500g protein + unlimited lettuce daily.

Physical Results – extremely determined not to let the regime ‘beat me’, dogged in my approach, more focused on finishing the daily chores than caring about the results occurring in front of my eyes, unable to function as a Mother other than preparing food in the crock pot each morning, eating my pitiful rations alone and then going to bed as early as possible (5pm some nights to sleep away the gnawing hunger), completed some cardio sessions in tears, not happy on a day to day level but motivated and excited to compete.

Stage Result – super lean stage body, extremely ‘cut’ but horribly stringy and flat, dull muscles.  Looking slightly emaciated! Starving beyond belief by the end of the day.

Comp Night & Beyond – with another comp only 2 weeks away I limited myself to one humungous pig-out on the first comp night. I ate till I could eat no more as I was craving every taste I had missed for so long. When I look back, I would consider myself to have been malnourished by comp day.

On Comp #2, I ate the same way on comp night, but continued into the day after and the day after and the day after that. I pulled up at about day 4 and started gathering stock of the situation. I’m not a stupid girl and I could see this food thing ending in complete disaster. As it was ,my feet and legs swelled like balloons to the point where they hurt to touch. My stomach was churning 24/7, and I was in a little world of hurt. Thank goodness I managed to pull back in the first week and I got back into the gym and started eating the way I thought would help me best while still indulging in some of the previously forbidden treats. Only problem was, I had lost track of portion control and found that, if I stepped near a packet of muesli bars, I would eat the whole lot! The whole lot! Be it 6 or 12, I had to see the end of the box. Feelings of shame, humiliation and despair quickly follow these sessions and I knew I had to find a solution…quickly. We then went overseas on a holiday and I was happy with my reintegration into the gym and achieved some great workouts over there. Also got food back on track and felt fairly good. I put on weight quite quickly and it was quite hard to accept as I wasn't really eating too badly. Weight gain did not equal food input. Clearly metabolism had suffered and was going at an all time slow.

January 2013-May 2013
Found my beloved Ingrid Barclay and began prepping the Body Conquest way!!Thank GOD!!!

12 weeks pre-comp and I’m eating 6-7 meals a day. Lifting heavier than ever. 2 weeks pre-comp and I’m restricted in my meals but still eating at least 5 different proteins, huge range of vegies, a special little sauce, flaxseed oil and fruit. I get hunger pains for sure but you have to understand that I really am food motivated!!! I love food, and eating, so it’s no wonder that I count the minutes until the next meal – that’s just me. Always been this way. As for training – minimal training with cardio increasing to a whopping……..well let’s say….less than 1.5 hours PER WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take that you Fraudster Comp Cardio Coaches!!!!!!

Physical Results – I am functioning like a real life human being right to the end!!! Little tired? Yes. Little hungry? You bet. Missing special treats? No doubt about it. But I continue to hold down a full-time job – actually manage to change careers in the last few weeks! – manage my beautiful little family, train, food prep, study and do all of the things that everyone else does – so different to the last comp!

Stage Results – Comp #1 and I’m looking rounder, fuller and happier than ever. Great results and enjoyed every single minute. Comp #2 and I’m a little leaner but still feeling full  in my muscles, and definitely excited and happy. Loved every minute of that comp. Comp #3 and I’m at the Gold Coast with some of the best physiques in the Southern Hemisphere!! We had a BLAST!!! I LOVED this comp!!! And do you know what???!!! I reckon I was within 1-2 (at most!) kgs of where I was in 2012!!! Ingrid got me as lean as I needed to be by manipulating grams of food – while keeping all the good foods in my day and, what I would describe as…minimal cardio!

Comp Night & Beyond – After Comp #1 I went out for dinner and had a great big rare steak with gravy and potato – yummo!! Then jumped straight back into my very adequate daily routine. Comp #2 I went out and had a whopping big lamb burger!!! Again – YUMMO!!!! Then again jumped back to my routine. Comp #3 – 3rd and final – and I had lamb cutlets, corn, bread and a nice big chocolate bar with a sneaky (or not so sneaky!) icecream! DOUBLE YUMMO!!!!!!! It was beautiful and I overdid it just a little with a sore tummy that night. I’m not so good at restrictions once given a green light!

HOWEVER – and this is the world’s biggest HOWEVER…….. this time it didn’t spill into the week!! This time I got up in the morning and, due to circumstances beyond our control, we were still in Brisbane with nothing better to do than to head to a local gym and smash out a bloody good shoulders and HIIT session!! From there I went to a pub for a gorgeous lamb tortilla – all within my hard earned metabolic window – and a nice cold glass of wine! And from there it’s been back to the normal routine, albeit with a lot of extra vegies, more fruit, bigger portions and less strict adherence to water quantities etc. But it was so darn easy  to go back to what I love - balance! I am as happy as a pig in mud eating this way and I don’t feel like I’m missing a thing!!! No swelling, no unbearable cravings (come on!! Of course I think about the gorgeous things I haven’t had for ages – but see below for my strategies). I’m only human and the minute I try to act like I’m not, I fall - spectacularly. I’m certain it’s that “pride goeth before a fall” thing that I very much believe in.

I will go on to admit that there are some very solid strategies that I adopted this time through to aid in keeping things on the straight and narrow, and I’m happy to share them. Just to show you that I do have to make decisions and stick to them to achieve my life goals. Nothing comes without commitment, drive and a willingness to do some hard work - physically, emotionally and psychologically if need be;

#1 – I always ate everything I was told to by Ingrid. I never skimped and thought I knew best. Why? Because I could see the recipe for disaster in limiting foods for an array of reasons.

 #2 – I never exceeded the cardio I was set. See #1 for the reason. If the food and cardio didn’t ‘marry up’ – I would have not been stage ready in my opinion.

 #3 – Immediately Post Comp is not the time for a holiday or days off for me. I need to walk straight back into work or similar in order to have something in my day, rather than wandering aimlessly around thinking about the foods I am suddenly ‘allowed’ to eat.

#4 – On the night of the last comp, I wrote a new gym program full of exercises that I hadn’t done for a while and that I found really exciting!! That’s why we hit the gym the following morning – because I simply couldn’t wait to do a shoulder superset program followed by some radical abs and a whopping HIIT! I set myself up to fall back in love with the gym after feeling a little comp weary. A little OTT to organise on comp night but I've never claimed to be 'normal'.

#5 – I made myself a deal. Eat a gorgeous meal on comp night, and then hold off for at least 48 hours before indulging in any more ‘over the top’ treats. By that, I mean if I were to polish off caramel slice, or cheesecake, or pizza etc – I wanted at least a 48 hour down-time in order to take a breath and assess whether it was a knee-jerk reaction or a true desire. Sure enough – who wants that shit after such a prolonged time of eating nutritiously? Not me for now. But hold up – don’t think I’m being too much of an angel!! I’m not!!! I confess!!
 
But I sorted out the daily things I really wanted to eat - cheese, some more fruits and lots of them, some more sweet potato than normal, a little sauce on some things, rice and few other bits and bobs. And that’s what I had and have and I fit it into my metabolic window (really believe in that stuff!). I’m really, really happy with that now and am past that ‘immediate post comp’ period where there is a tendancy for the old knee-jerk food reaction. So now would be the time to have a piece of birthday cake (thank you Benji for accommodating mummy’s desire for cake) without too much concern that it will trigger some sort of binge. It didn’t and it won’t.
 
Clearly I have someone to thank for my results and my ongoing health and happiness for all things physique. I will do that but she deserves more than just a fleeting mention so I'll do that very soon.
 
So here I am, a few weeks post comp season, and I’m a happy, happy girl. I have new goals, new training methods and some new physique goals that I’m determined to smash!!!

But that’s another blog coming very soon! All about results and goals and what’s on the burner these days. Stay tuned.